In this episode, I'm joined by psychologist and host of the Selling The Couch podcast, Dr. Melvin Varghese. We share personal experiences of going through difficult times, challenging the traditional notion of retirement, exploring the pressure to constantly achieve, the distraction of social media and the importance of listening to one's intuition and taking breaks.TakeawaysBuilding real relationships online is possible.Success should be defined by more than just financial achievements; it should also include time with loved ones and personal fulfillment.Experiencing different cultures can provide a more holistic perspective on life and help appreciate the humanity in others. Relationships are key indicators of longevity and happiness.The good and bad of social media.The importance of rest, self-care, and designing our days.Living with future generations in mind Chapters00:00Introduction and Building Real Relationships Online02:59Living a Well-Rounded Life: Designing a Life of Relationships and Experiences06:00Challenging the Traditional Notion of Retirement08:46The Pressure to Constantly Achieve and the Importance of Taking Breaks13:50Lessons from Two Cultures: Achievement and Appreciation22:43Finding Joy in the Present Moment25:39The Power of Genuine Connections and Relationships26:48Finding Balance and Mindfulness in Social Media27:37Prioritizing Self-Care and Rest35:44Designing Our Days for a Fulfilling Life45:53Living in the Present and Considering the FutureGuest BioMelvin Varghese, PhD is a licensed psychologist in Philadelphia, PA.In 2015, Dr. Varghese founded Selling The Couch, a podcast to help therapists move from clinical to online income.The podcast is one of the top Career podcasts in Apple Podcasts, has been downloaded over 1.8 million times, and is heard in over 125 countries.Dr. Varghese also founded several resources for therapists transitioning from the therapist chair to online income including a podcasting community for therapists that’s supported over 240 therapist podcasters, an online course mastermind for therapists launching their first online course (50+ students), and a mastermind for veteran course creators to find support growing and scaling their course.Links to favorites mentioned in the episode (not sponsored.)Slant BoardBedJetPrana MatIf you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review and share with a few friends so we can all help each other Remember to Live. To connect with and learn more about me and how I am Remembering to Live, you can find me on Instagram @coreancanty or at coreancanty.com.If you are ready to re-imagine, re-claim and re-design your life, book a possibility call today.