Most of our parents were already married and have kids by the time they were in their 40s, but here we are, still wondering if the person we like likes us back, if the 'date' we had over the weekend was really a date or 'just coffee', or if it's really normal for a busy person to take a week before responding to our text, and so many more! Joining us in this conversation are three single men in their early, mid, and late 40s who share their thoughts and views on this subject. This episode gives us a peek into male perspectives and helps us understand how they approach dating in their 40s. This episode requires a big-portion meryenda because a lot of tea will be spilled! Timestamps: 00:00 Podcast intro 00:14 A little chit chat 01:12 Tina's hair and our episode topic 04:24 Meet our guests or searchers 06:59 Our meryenda 09:32 Let's define Dating 11:47 Let’s define the Relationship. Or not? 17:29 When was your relationship? 18:49 Was it a conscious decision to stay single? 24:23 Where are you looking for dates? 28:38 Preferences, essentials, and non-negotiables 36:02 Exploring dating apps 37:31 Have your preferences changed along the years? 46:55 Reflections on why we’re still single 57:43 TOTGA - The One That Got Away 01:01:08 Usapang Exes 01:11:34 Wrap up Feel free to slide into their Instagram DMs: Joey: @joeyocrninja Radek: @ocr_radek Clark: @clarenceesber Dating apps mentioned: (Not sponsored)https://www.catholicmatch.com/https://www.okcupid.com/ https://coffeemeetsbagel.com/ https://bumble.com/ https://tinder.com/ Relationship tools mentioned: Love Languages: http://5lovelanguages.com Attachment theory: https://youtu.be/Qa11KTYzDdw?si=w71xQz90IVaP6RUo Disclaimer: Please know that we are not licensed therapists. If you are experiencing serious emotional or mental issues, we urge you to seek professional help. Here's a good place to start if you’re in the Philippines: ⁠https://mentalhealthph.org/⁠ Connect with us: Facebook: ⁠http://facebook.com/meryendatherapy⁠ Instagram: ⁠http://instagram.com/meryendatherapy⁠ Music by Arrigo Martelli For feedback and/or topic suggestions, email us at meryendatherapy@gmail.com⁠. This is an independently produced podcast. You can help support us by buying us meryenda. :) https://buymeacoffee.com/meryendatherapy